Has Compassion Disappeared?

On January 22, 2017, Naika Venant a 14-year-old girl committed suicide while in the care of the Florida child welfare system in Miami.  She streamed the progression of her self inflicted death on Facebook Live for over two hours from the bathroom of her foster home. Horrifically, there were a reported 1,000 views which should have brought attention and help to Naika, but the opposite happened.… Continue reading Has Compassion Disappeared?

ACEs…Great in Poker not in Childhood

Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) are classified into three categories of events: abuse, neglect, and household dysfunction.  The experiences are measured from an individual's childhood until the age of 18 into the ACEs questionnaire, which is 10 questions, to determine their exposure to harmful experiences to determine an overall score.  The higher the ACEs score (or number of adverse experiences), the more… Continue reading ACEs…Great in Poker not in Childhood

Listen Carefully…A Podcast

Yes, you have read the title right!  I have created a podcast.  For an intimate look into the foster care system, listen to the interview I had with Sam a foster care alumni.  In this podcast, I explore with Sam his journey from entrance into foster care to present, at age 25.   We explore the impact that… Continue reading Listen Carefully…A Podcast

What’s that Podcast About?

There is now a podcast for almost any topic out there from politics, philosophy, crime investigation, and yes, even foster care!  The now infamous series Serial, with over 80 million downloads, brought the podcast to its now current status of the "go to" on demand listen while engaging in our day to day tasks.  Well, truth be told, I am… Continue reading What’s that Podcast About?

ReMoved: Understanding the Lived Foster Care Experience

"My past defines me.  This is who I am.  I am unseen, unheard, unwanted.  That is what I am.  If I am even anything."  ReMoved ReMoved is a poignant short film that portrays the lived foster care experience. The film was written and produced by Nathanael and Christina Matanick to raise awareness of the pain and hopelessness felt by children in the… Continue reading ReMoved: Understanding the Lived Foster Care Experience

The Luggage of Foster Care

We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty.  We must start in our own homes to remedy this type of poverty. -Mother Teresa

Feelings of Youth in Foster Care

Pictures speak louder than words!  Look at this image of how children and youth in foster care may be feeling and ask yourself "How can I help?"  

Broken Stories

Banksy's street art called A Girl with A Balloon, is painted on a wall in South London. Through my lens as a clinical social worker I am torn in two directions with this piece.  I feel sadness, loss, despair, and heartbreak because of the loss of her balloon.  But, then I feel the complete opposite; happiness and relief with the prospect that the… Continue reading Broken Stories

Foster Care as an Adjective

I recently came upon the poetry of Nayyirah Waheed, a poet who elicits intense emotion and unrivaled beauty.  Her choice of simple words with unique grammar, dashes and no capitalization, brings a profound need to relate her poetry to the lived human experience.  Here is one example that I came across in my exploration of personhood. Wow, right?  A poem,… Continue reading Foster Care as an Adjective